A Counseling Practice Treating the Affluent?
Are wealthy clients different than the poor ones?
Years ago, it is reported that Eugene Kennedy said if he had a choice between treating a poor client and a rich client - that he’d choose the rich client. This is because the rich person knows that money isn’t the answer to his problems.
Is that true?
I have said over and over again that we must not discriminate against the wealthy. They also have problems. They do experience depression and anxiety. And in some ways, it is worse because those less fortunate (or jealous) look at them and belittle their emotional problems.
For example, on the web I saw a comment from someone belittling rich people who paid high fees to their therapists. One implied that the rich people in pain were, in some ways, just whiners and said “I can think of better ways to spend (the therapists fee as opposed to giving it to a therapist.)”
Therapists who are working with the very wealthy are reporting that depression is common among those who were “born” into wealth.
And what about the “new kids on the block?” Those who have made their fortunes themselves, for example in technology. Can you imagine the emotions and anxieties they go through?
Many people are uncomfortable marketing to the wealthy. It can be intimidating. But the reality is that there is less competition at that level. One in five households hold 55% of the wealth in the US. You get to choose your clients. Do you want to try for the one house? Or the other four that together make up the other 45% of the wealth?
Your vision is unique to you. But if you are considering marketing to the wealthy- make sure you do the ideal client exercise. Make sure you understand their needs.
By the way, in the July 7, 2008 issue of the New York Times there was an excellent article by ERIC KONIGSBERG titled ‘Challenges of $600-per-session” patients.’
If you look at it -check out the office of the psychiatrist pictured. See how it exudes wealthy - remember - everything you do is marketing.
Happy practice building!
Casey

Comment by Cynthia on 24 July 2008:
Casey,
this is a great NYT article, I appreciate the link. It is very interesting to note in the reader’s comments section (following the NYT article) that serious discrimination against the affluent does indeed exist.
On one hand, it seems as if the attitude is that having money should equal happiness. It also seems as if one has wealth, she or he isn’t allowed the neurosis that we all experience.
I am wondering how much of this “outside looking in” thinking might keep the wealthy from seeking therapy
I think therapy to the affluent would make a really interesting workshop.
Cynthia
Comment by Jane on 22 October 2008:
I grew up in the upper class family surround many rich and famous people. Most have depression and anxiety because most people approach them want their money and not show genuinue love and care. They do not have many friends but have many enemies who envy or jealous them or try to robe their money. I agree counselors need to reach rich people because they need care and love too. Those counselors who believe in poverty living cannot teach people how to live abundant life.